My boyfrind is getting divorce,but ex-wife has been creating a lot of debts on his credit cards and 4 business?
April 9, 2010 
8 Comments
Summer I asked:
she has been spending so much money on his debts.it is now limited and we cannot even rent own our apartment now.
she has been spending so much money on his debts.it is now limited and we cannot even rent own our apartment now.
That's his problem and his business, stay out of it, it's safer that way.
cancel the cards!!!! If he authorized her to use the cards then he is liable…if she is using the cards without his authorization then he is not he needs to have her arrested for theft.
He was suppose to file a separation and get it notarized. Then the ex would not have been able to do that; however, there is nothing you can do about it now.
You can try pleading to the judge, but I doubt it will do any good.
tell him to cancel the account,if he cant afford to pay for the apartment,how much more to build a new family?sorry but thats what i think.
Your boyfriend is getting a divorce? You should never get involved with a man in a relationship period. He has to close the chapter on that relationship before beginning a new one. His drama will affect you for years and years. Better to move on. Let hiim get his crap in line or you will have the same issues. You have to wonder why his relationship is ending with her. I'm sure he will blame it all on her but there are 2 in the marriage right now. If he dated while still married to her I'm sure he wouldn't mind dating while with you when he is tired of your relationship.
I think that you can at least give him your opinion on what he can do with the account that's on the credit cards or maybe he can have you get a bank account and save his money on there that way when there's no more money on that joined account then maybe the ex will stop. But he also needs to put his foot down and tell his ex what's on his mind even if he doesn't like her and doesn't want to talk to her. If he doesn't say something then it'll never stop and you both won't have a life for yourselves. Also, just give him your opinion, don't talk to the ex or anything, that would just cause way more drama than the one that's already given.
Let's speculate this from the wife's point of view. (Notice I did not say "ex-wife". According to you, they are going through a divorce, not divorced, so they are still married.) Your boyfriend has essentially told his wife that she is no longer great and wonderful or even good enough. Instead, he finds some floozy bimbo on the side. She is more than a bit ticked and doing everything within her power to not only upset him and the bimbo, but making things hard for them to do anything to get a financial start.
Your boyfriend has already shown you that he is capable of not being trusted. I once dated a man who was married. Once I found out he was married, I dumped him. I wanted a trustworthy man, not an immature, little boy. Now I'm married to a very mature, trustworthy man who is an incredible father.
I also hope for the sake of your boyfriend and his wife that there are no children involved.
The only thing he can do is notify the court of her excessive spending on his credit. The judge will force her to repay the debt since I imagine he did not give permission for these purchases, and since its ruined his credit or finances and the cards or accounts will be closed.
He should've taken the accounts away from her, or at least removed his name to avoid this….